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hong  
#1 Posted : Saturday, July 25, 2009 2:34:00 PM(UTC)
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Steps to help your child talk out of an argument
1. Stop arguing. 2. Calm down. Take deep breaths, count something or count backwards, or leave the group for a minute. 3. Agree to talk it out. 4. Everyone gets a turn to tell, not yell, their story and be listened to without interruptions. 5. Think up lots of ideas for solving the problem. 6. Try to choose the best solution, the one everyone agrees on and thinks will work. 7. Decide how to carry out this plan. 8. Do it. Remember: 1. Arguments are allowed, but meanness is not. 2. In order to please everyone at least a little, you may not get exactly what you want.
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#2 Posted : Sunday, September 20, 2009 9:27:13 AM(UTC)
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hong wrote:
Steps to help your child talk out of an argument
1. Stop arguing. 2. Calm down. Take deep breaths, count something or count backwards, or leave the group for a minute. 3. Agree to talk it out. 4. Everyone gets a turn to tell, not yell, their story and be listened to without interruptions. 5. Think up lots of ideas for solving the problem. 6. Try to choose the best solution, the one everyone agrees on and thinks will work. 7. Decide how to carry out this plan. 8. Do it. Remember: 1. Arguments are allowed, but meanness is not. 2. In order to please everyone at least a little, you may not get exactly what you want.
Easy to say and hard to do.
matt  
#3 Posted : Friday, September 25, 2009 1:50:32 AM(UTC)
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Very hard to stop arguing with the children.
jacky1  
#4 Posted : Monday, September 28, 2009 3:11:59 PM(UTC)
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matt wrote:
Very hard to stop arguing with the children.
I agree!
hong  
#5 Posted : Wednesday, October 7, 2009 1:46:04 PM(UTC)
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Think positively!
Kate Z  
#6 Posted : Saturday, November 7, 2009 1:13:46 AM(UTC)
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hong wrote:
Steps to help your child talk out of an argument
1. Stop arguing. 2. Calm down. Take deep breaths, count something or count backwards, or leave the group for a minute. 3. Agree to talk it out. 4. Everyone gets a turn to tell, not yell, their story and be listened to without interruptions. 5. Think up lots of ideas for solving the problem. 6. Try to choose the best solution, the one everyone agrees on and thinks will work. 7. Decide how to carry out this plan. 8. Do it. Remember: 1. Arguments are allowed, but meanness is not. 2. In order to please everyone at least a little, you may not get exactly what you want.
I cannot calm down very often whenever think the children were not developed in a rightway.
ww1227  
#7 Posted : Saturday, November 7, 2009 2:55:45 AM(UTC)
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I cannot calm down very often whenever think the children were not developed in a rightway.
my personal openion: there is not right or wrong way for the children to develop them. it's parents expectations. You may expect them in one way, and they go to other. But you cannot say it's wrong way.
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#8 Posted : Wednesday, April 7, 2010 11:04:58 PM(UTC)
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Nice post. Well, always, think up lots of ideas for solving the problem.
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